Reincarnation

Each and everyone of us are created from the great spirit. The reason we are here is by choice. We have decided and chosen upon specific lessons to help us grow spiritually. Some maybe who only live on this earth plain or connect to another for a few months may have chosen simply to feel the connection to the earth plain.
As we grow, so does the entirety of our soul groups and the spirit realm. For each person may experience or suffer the same, but each will react differently and have different results also leading to different outcomes.
It is very much the point that it is not enough to simply theorise a situation or how a person will react to, or come out of a situation in a certain way. Because every one of us is different. Each one of us was brought up by different parents and different environments.
And so by us living the lessons of life on this earth, then and only then can you actually reliably understand and accept how each individual, each soul will react and grow from an experience.
Whilst you are going through the rubbish that life can throw at you, it doesn't seem possible that infact you would choose such a path. But when at the end of your time comes on this earth plain. You will realise the invaluable lessons and wisdom you have learnt. And unfortunately can only be got through experiencing the bad times as well as the good.
It is strange, when you think about how many times a situation seems to repeat itself in your life. when you look back, you will realise that infact the situation is repeating itself because you have not dealt with it, you haven't learnt the lesson from that situation or person. Once you have done that, you find the cycle stops. And you do indeed move on to your next lesson.
But remember, you have not just chosen to learn the harsh lessons, to experience the worst. You have also chosen to add into your life, feeling love, giving love. Enjoying happy times, looking into your Childs eyes ,their laughter. Those moments will always out way the downside. This is because these are the true lessons to experience. Love, Joy and humility.
Many times people ask, if god was so loving, why would the great spirit take our loved ones from us.
It is not of gods doing, it is our choice when our life on this earth plain ends and we return back to the spirit realm. If for instance, god was to interfere every time someone who should pass back to spirit, doesn't because someone wants them here alive physically. This would be a very cramped world. No one would pass over. When we mourn and grieve for a loss of someone or a pet. Truly this is mourning the loss to us. The person, pet or whoever isn't bothered for themselves. They have been received home again. They feel no more pain, no anger, no negative rubbish that only here we experience. They are surrounded by love, family and are cared for continuously. The only remorse they would have is the pain that has been left behind. Not by them, but by the people feeling that anguish on this earth plain.
Suicides are often portrayed and horrifically so as possibly now being lost souls because they took their own life. That they are lost to spirit and to god. The only thing different about this passing as any other is that infact this was not a choice, this was not indeed part of the plan. This is not a lesson you can learn or overcome. Because we were given free will, these people have decided to choose cut short their life on this earth plain. They will be collected as all are and taken home by family members and guides. They will as we all do have to look over there life on this earth. They are not judged by anyone but themselves. They will realise their accomplishments as well as any lesson not learnt. Including the fact they shortened there agreed earthly life span. they then can choose to come back and try again. or if they wish they can develop in other way. They are not punished, they are not judged by a vengeful god. They are not banished to the depths of hell. They are not a lost soul! By taking their own life they were fully aware before passing that would indeed cause the shut down of their physical body and so knew that they would be returning home.
Some souls are bound to this earth plain, this is of their choice. They have never been and never will be lost to spirit, but can be lost to themselves. You normally find people who have committed the most horrific deed on earth have bounded themselves to this earth plain as they are fearful of what reception they will get when they go back home. As the saying goes, "As we live our lives on earth, we make our home in heaven" But they will constantly have someone there ready to travel with them across that celestial ocean.
Accident victims and so forth, are already known to be crossing over before they even have. There will be a collection party for them. And guides, counsellors and family members and friends to help them adjust to the fact of being back home.
So why are we here? To live, to Learn and then to return home. Allowing our loved ones here on this earth plain to overcome another lesson. Grief, to learn and understand that indeed one day you will be together again when it is their time to return back to the spirit world. And in doing so, starting the cycle of loss again. For their family and friends to overcome and understand.