Tuesday, 12 August 2008

Self Responsibility


Everything we do in life causes a reaction. Every word, every decision we make is an action. And actions cause reactions, it’s … that simple!
By understanding how we affect so many people by our actions, we then need to understand what the after affects of those actions will produce, the shock wave as it were. As a medium/psychic we have more responsibility our shoulders than a vast number of people who choose to walk other pathways. Why? Because we are directly affecting peoples lives at an emotional level, which can also manifest into the physical.
When we are passing on messages form loved ones, we owe it to ourselves, the spirit world, and the person your giving that reading to. By flippantly giving any old message we can destroy someone’s belief in the afterlife. Affectively destroying another’s belief there mum, dad whomever is fine and doing there thang! In the spirit world. What an awful and disgusting thing to take away from anyone, the belief that the one you love is alive and well!
A mediums job as such, and this is actually all a medium is there to do, is to provide evidence of someone’s existence in spirit form. That’s it. No prophecies, No telling someone what they should do in there life. Just provide the evidence and that’s it. Job done!
The messages from loved ones who have passed, are more on a supportive note, or simply to say hi and they send there love. The spirit world can not interfere in another’s life, no matter how much they would love to. But they can’t as that would be affecting another’s free will and life path made by personal choices.The spirit world may give you messages as they would say them when they were on this earth plain. They are relying upon your personal responsibility as a medium to interpret the message in a responsible fashion.
There are a hundred and none different ways to say the same thing; it is your choice, your responsibility as a medium what words you choose to use to express the message given to you.
Please remember this in all undertakings of message giving!!!!!
Personal Responsibility in our personal lives:
To understand the affects of lack of personal responsibility in Mediumship we really need to look at our earthly lives. How many of us, me included, blame others for there reactions or actions that affect us on a personal level. Whether justified or not, we do have to accept that people, events react to our actions and decisions to create them actions.
This part is not for you to wallow and think” yup I shouldn’t have done this, I shouldn’t have done that” The only lesson you fail in life, is one you haven’t bothered learning from. Even if another’s actions have made you react badly or in a negative way it is still your responsibility for reacting in a certain fashion, whether that is lashing out or simply blaming everything else on someone else.
It is also your responsibility to let another person know in a constructive way that there actions have caused a negative reaction in you. Example: If some one has hurt your feelings by something they have said etc, it is your responsibility to let them know you are hurt by what has been said. That is after you take into account your part in the situation that may have caused those persons verbal comments!
A simple” you know that has really hurt my feelings” can make another realise something has been said possibly unjustified to cause that pain. By understanding our choices and affects in our every day life, we can then start to understand the affects we can have on another via our actions

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